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For the DIYers who want to do End-of-Life (EOL) planning at their own pace and convenience but don’t know where to begin. Informed by nearly 15 years of providing death care and noticing the common questions people have, Neshia created this reflective and comprehensive 100+ pages workbook to give to all A Thoughtful Death clients who opt for personalized EOL planning sessions. With mindfulness prompts, spaces for notes to next-of-kin and a wide range of additional resources, this is a great tool to begin your planning.

Please note that this download option does not include consultation with Neshia. Visit the Services page if you prefer to have a more supported EOL Planning experience. If you purchase this workbook and then decide to schedule an EOL planning session with Neshia, you will receive $49 off of your consultation.

This workbook was thoughtfully written, compiled and edited by Neshia over the course of many months. Thank you for respecting this labor by proper crediting and mindful purchasing. Please contact Neshia directly (neshia@athoughtfuldeath.com) for bulk order pricing.

For many adults, talking about death and grief with children feels overwhelming. However, just like with grown-ups, having the opportunity to discuss these topics directly can actually help kids have healthier, less chaotic experiences of death and grief. Books can be a great way to start the conversation. Here is a curated list of beautifully illustrated and sincerely written books, many featuring BIPOC creators and/or characters.

A thoughtfully made mini workbook ideal for grievers at any stage. This resource guides you through how to become more aware of when your grief needs support and gives a framework for documenting practical tools to help yourself mourn in healthy ways.

Please note that this workbook is not meant to replace or substitute for personalized, professional care. Talk to a mental health clinician or other care provider for ways to help with your grief.

Whether you want to support a loved one who is dying, are caring for someone who is dying or you want to plan ahead for yourself, a gift card is a great way to start creating a thoughtful death.

Please note that the gift card will be conveniently delivered by email to you or to your chosen recipient.

Neshia originally penned these writing prompts as a simple, open-ended activity on note cards for people to engage with during A Thoughtful Death grief events. They were so popular that they have been gathered into a single, artful deck available here now. The cards include 12 introspective writing prompts along with two blank cards for a more personalized reflection experience.

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